By Adesuwa Ewoigbokhan

Mid adult couple on armchair in new home

We are in another Easter season and it can even be more exciting for a number of reasons. For some people, Easter celebration means time off work, the official coming of the rainy season or sitting down to long meals, with plenty of assorted dishes. All these will mean a good change to your body weight due to your chocolate intake. Although it is holiday time and many of you are in celebration mode, it is not an excuse to neglect your sexual needs and desires. Your sexuality side also deserves a treat. The season is the perfect time for couples to get down and flirt with one another. A break such as Easter, gives the perfect opportunity to have great sex time with some creativity. People don’t get stressed up when it comes to presenting Christmas and Valentine gifts; why not think out of the box for Easter? It is the perfect period to remind your spouse how hot they are instead of limiting the season to just ice cream and chocolate.

The long Easter weekend with public holidays can be very hectic. By the time it comes to an end, you are asking yourself how the time flew by. Another break is in view. Do try and take advantage of this by re-igniting passion in the bedroom. If you have not begun preparations, it is not too late to start now.
There are simple tips to adopt. Who says one cannot have a sexy Easter with all the trimmings? If you’re not a fan of bunny outfits, then go for the removing of a piece of your clothing as you indulge in hide and seek games.

Sex is no longer fun if only one partner is consistently having orgasm. This is the chance you need to spend time together, reconnect and create some fabulous memories. You give and receive, listen and learn, these are very vital keys in relationships. Treat one another to sensual messages or a candle-lit feast to warm up the temperature  and let romantic spark flies. Sex tips naturally, involve what happened in the bedroom, hints that suggest ways of changing what you do on a normal day out of bed for steamier sex life. You do not have to wait for Valentine, Christmas or any other kind of celebrations before bringing some props into the bed.

The Easter holiday can be a season of exciting sex. Your ability to be creative is one of the ways to keep your spouse  entertained. Just don’t let the season be for family outing only; it can also find a place in your bedroom. Sexual fantasies should not be once in a  year stuff. Your love life does not have to be boring. So seize this opportunity to be that wild bunny for the night. Dressing up like this can be quite exciting for most people though, not for everyone: just a bit of mystery and dirty sexy messages that can get any man’s temperature rising. Since it is Easter, get a basket of eggs with a sexy message in between the eggs and put it at the centre of your bed that is already made with satin bed sheets. Drop hints with a colourful broad card  to guide him with instructions and take it as far as you want it to go. This can be in form of puzzle or handwritten note, like a variety of papers that he has to join together and to be able to locate you. The note can also give him instructions on what to do, like asking him to undress and wait in the shower for you or, send him on a goose hunt around the apartment looking for his reward. Spice it up by leaving an item of clothing at every stop  as he comes rushing to find you.

If it happens that your spouse is a   chocolate lover make him sweat for his treats, unwrap some chocolates and place them on different parts of your body and let his tongue fish for the treats. Light candles in the bedroom to soften the mood, you can also decide to dim the lights as a signal that you’re ready for intimacy.  Exercise is good  for all aspect of relationships, so go to the gym to sweat it  out. You will see yourself heating up between the sheets and this, will improve your lovemaking.
The season allows you to combine chocolates, lingerie, body chocolates and eggs. For those who are not crazy for chocolates, they are free to indulge in some quality passion, giving their lust life the holiday boost by trying out new sex styles.

Try to be a fan of foreplay and build some sexy tension before the act. Sex ought to be fun, giving you smiling faces, partake in the game of hide and seek. This is a cool way of creating erotic buzz indoor for you and yours. Make him look for sexy clues and treats to get him in the mood for a lust-filled night.  Have a variety of chocolates, chewing gums and  colourfully wrapped sweets, scattered round the rooms in places where you will like to make love. It could be on the sofa, dining table, kitchen, staircase, or on the floor. Just be creative and imaginative. The whole idea is to take you out of the traditional bedroom. Also, play with the use of a blind fold, carefully use a soft satin to cover your spouse’s eyes as this will heighten all of his senses. It is okay for you to be spontaneous by leaving love- making to chance, by the rolling of a dice and executing the actions it falls on.

Have a pair of sexy underwear; that you like to see your spouse wear; lacy designs for the ladies and skimpy thongs for the guys including, assorted packs of flavoured condoms to keep sex  interesting.

Add a sexy twist to your Easter holiday. Run her a bath with scented oil, pour  some wine and play her favourite music on low noise.  Put out the fluffiest towels to wrap her when she is done. Lead her to bed and apply a gentle massage which can lead to turn on. If this happens, let it be glaring that you want her to have orgasm because it is better to give than to receive. For the guy, let him sit back on a comfortable chair with his legs stretched out, when he returns, say nothing about your nakedness. Go about your Easter preparation and just let him watch you. Do not let him touch you until you are ready. Drag him to your special corner in the house to have sex.

Easter season is a time for love, a time for giving and receiving and this includes activities in the bedroom.

Enjoy the time that you and your spouse have earned and truly deserve.