By Patricia Uyeh,

Media Personality, Toke Makinwa generated mixed reactions from her fans following her provoking post on men and relationship on social media.

While advising the ladies, she reiterated that men misbehave when they feel like. She pointed out that regardless of what a woman does, men will only change when they want to.

She wrote:

“This!!!! I saw this and screamed amen so loud???? same thing I was telling someone yesterday. It has nothing to do with you, stop blaming yourself for not receiving the kind of love you gave out, sometimes these things don’t work because they just aren’t meant to be and that’s ok. People don’t change for who they want, people change when the time is right and quite frankly growth happens when you let it.

“That “bastard” is someone’s future husband and guess what?”She’s not going to see that side of him. Not excusing bad behavior but as I grow and learn, I realize this thing called love cannot be forced. Love yourself enough to swallow that jagged little pill called truth and walk away with your head high. You’ll meet your own king and you won’t need to beg or force him to treat you right. Ladies this one is for you.

“#Relationshiptalk#OnBecomingFearless?#Loveisagameofwin#evenifyouloseyoustillwin #Takethelesson”

Photo credit: Instagram@tokemakinwa