By Patricia Uyeh

Perhaps you have been hurt by men and you have concluded that true love is hard to find. Don’t jump into conclusions so fast. There are many love stories from celebrities and people alike that still prove that the marriage institution is worth it and blissful.

This is the perfect time to reexamine yourself to understand where you are getting it all wrong that you happen to not find true love.

Find below 3 reasons you don’t seem to true love:

1. You are afraid of relationships. It appears you are yet to get over the hurts and pains of previous relationships. Dwelling on past experiences can stop you from attracting the right kind of men who would offer your nothing but true love. You have to start with yourself. It begins with you. Let go of the hurts and negative mindset and stay open-minded to attract the right person.

2. You are not taking the neccessary actions to bring your true love. Stop and ponder on this: Are you doing the same things year in, year out? Are you visualising and affirming the right things to yourself? Are you knowledgeable, physically, spiritually, financially and mentally prepared for marriage?

3. You are pessimistic. Always expecting the worse to happen would not get you far or draw the kind of person you want in your life. Don’t join the school of thought that believe ‘all men are scum’. There are still good men out there. Believe, be the good woman and everything would take shape.