Being sexy has little or nothing to do with sex what happens in the bedroom. It’s New Year and you have got to show a new side of yourself. Whether it is the tossing of your old, unflattering lingerie, just note that looking sexy is not as tough as you think and it does not have to be stressful . 

There are a number of ways to feel hot. Here are some ways to start:

Shower and shave before having sex, this will make you feel youthful and also smell amazingly. The opposite will make him think twice before jumping into bed with you.  Brush your teeth two to three times daily, make sure you moisturize your skin after bathing. Men get crazily in love with ladies who love this ‘secret kill’ as this will have a firm urge to seek out this one secret ingredient in their bedroom repertoire.

Most ladies believe that their men get nuts over their bodies; so, they tend to look like supermodels. But the simple fact is that, so long you are in front of him naked and want to have sex with him, automatically you become the most beautiful woman on the planet. He will be romantically playing with you, your hair inclusive,  so, make sure your hair smells nice and always looks pretty. No hair spray, keep it natural and flowing.

Go easy on makeup since you wouldn’t like mascara to run down your cheeks in the middle of a sweaty orgasm, and you surely don’t want your lipstick smudged all over his shoulders as you are biting him in bliss. Leave out the makeup or use the minimum needed to look  unzombified.

Dim the lighting in your bedroom, this gives off a romantic feeling, and makes you look sexier. Nobody wants to make love under flinty fluorescent lights, instead, light a few candles and soften the lights. Based on a recent survey, it was discovered that both men and women actually prefer dim lights for love making. This is quite obvious, it’s just enough light to see what you are indulging in, giving you both a shady flattering shadow.

Give him that sultry look. No time to be goofy, so give him that sleepy look. Lower your eyelids and look at him as if you are teasing him, flirt gently with your eyes. The eyes are responsible for conveying a large portion of non verbal communication. Nothing beats the look of that moment when he enters you for the first time.

Go for flattering lingerie, accentuate your assets and lift the parts that sag to make it easy for him to remove. Almost all women look very sexy in a corset, give it a try. Alternatively, leave the lingerie aside and make use of the bed sheet to your advantage. Lie naked and cover yourself with the bed covers, cross your arms under your breasts to push them up, exposing only the top of your cleavage. Bend your knee, leave one leg out showing off your foot. The hint of skin mixed with the knowledge of what happens under the sheets is going to punch him wild.  

To be realistic, feeling sexy can be a difficult task. It is possible you exude confidence during office presentation, but when it comes to sex, it is totally different. ‘’It’s hard to be open with your sexuality for anybody because you feel vulnerable to rejection’’ says Sex expert, Jane Greer, author of What About Me? Stop selfishness from ruining your relationship. 

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