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HOW TO INITIATE SEX AS A WOMAN

September 10,2023
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Intiating sex is one big deal in any healthy relationship. However, sex should not always be initiated by one partner all the time because it feels nice to feel wanted and desired.
Initiating intercourse can be a bit tricky to navigate for fear of misunderstanding and rejection.

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Good communication can stop this from happening to some extent; you should be able to tell that hes not in the mood because he genuinely does not geel up to it, and not necessarily because theres anything wrong with you.
Also know that it is not just verbal cues or asking outright that can make sex happen.
Most of the time, ladies wait and expect their lovers to always make the first move when they feel horny. A woman need not wait for the man to feel horny first before sex can take place.
Being able to initiate love making as a lady can be the difference between feeling super-nervous and get it on like a real pro.
Get creative, know how to initiate sex, turn up the heat and take the plunge for once. This can save your union; nothing beats creativity.
Couples being frisky with one another plays a huge role in intimacy; you get to bond and build a stronger connection and then copulate.
Spouses’ quarrels most of the time are usually due to lack of sex life. Communication gets thrown off and they begin to feel distant from one another.
Heres how to initiate sex in an alluring way to arouse your partner:
Get him in the mood even when he is not game.
There is really no right or wrong way to initiate sexual activity, but knowing how to initiate sex with your spouse in a way that makes him eager to hop in bed with you is the secret to a healthy sexual life.

  • Make use of playful communication as a way to signal to your man, your interest and availability for mating like, wearing a certain piece of jewelry that let him know youre in the mood, or leaving a note on the dresser, where he can easily see it. The kitchen is not left out as you can, even, have a designated fridge magnet that you place when interested in mating with your lovebird.
  • Body language is a subtle way to build up sexual heat and to communicate interest, and desire for your boo without uttering words. You can do this by brushing against him in the doorway, running your fingers through his hair, pulling him close for a hug, or slowly unbuttoning his clothing while watching for his reaction and approval. All these are easy ways to let him know youre in the mood.
  • Start in the morning and a good place to begin is in the chat box; send a spicy text such as, I cant wait to see you tonight and naughty pictures: stuff to build anticipation to make him horny.
  • Spice things up to a top notch by sprinkling a mix of dirty talks, give him insight into your expectations for the bedroom, and let him know how much he turned you on, how much you did like to touch and taste him. Be more specific about your sexual desires and invite him to indulge you.
  • Dress the part as words are not always necessary when sending signs that you are feeling sexy.
    Visual stimulation can get one in the mood; let your outfit do the talking; wearing underwear or clothing that you feel attractive in, are some of the ways to send suggestive messages for later foreplay without you uttering a sound.
    To be continued…
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