After the vows, couples tend to forget that love is constant and passion needs rekindling every now and then; rather, they  end up settling  down for a monotonous routine which most times, becomes a boring life style devoid of sizzling.


     No need showing off or impressing others about your love for your spouse, keep it meaningful between the two of you. A relationship left on its own cannot survive due to the indifference of the two persons concerned. Your romantic needs have to be spiced up; less fights, an easier and enjoyable  bond, these can be implemented by indulging  in some creative tips to ramp up the passion part in your marriage.
     Be ready to do stuff you don’t normally love; but which your partner cherishes but doesn’t get to do regularly. This way, you are letting your spouse know that his/her needs and desires are more important to you. It may not be every time but, enough to let them know  that you care.
     List those things you appreciate and most thankful for in your marriage, tuck them away in different loops and corners of the house like a treasure hunt. Playing hide/seek room and making sure it gets to end in the master bed room.
    Always, plan for a mystery night that will be packed full of exciting surprises, building anticipation when paired with romance, this usually increases sexual libido gand arousal.
    With children, you need to make extra arrangement for weekends and normal days to spend alone-time with your spouse.
     Get to recreate those key components of your first date, communicate what you thought back then, and you will be surprised at how much fun this will be.
     Allow some kind of  silliness together as a couple. Being playful brings to memory the joy you share, the reason you chose each other accepted to live together everyday. Move away from your comfort zone and monotonous activities; experiment, explore and discover something new to feel  refreshing about one  another. 
     Regularly pay each other compliments, write loving adjectives about your spouse when texting, emailing or sending Whatapp messages. Alternatively, whisper them one at a time throughout the day and week. The use of affirmative words are also to be encouraged.
      Relieve the days when you used to allow your significant part mix tape of all your  favourite songs. Go the digital way by creating a romantic and fabulous playlist for them on their iPod or Smartphone so that as he/ she listen to them, they will  always think of you.
Remember to plan ahead a bedroom picnic with food enhancers, sex toys to delight each other with for desert. Make main dish a special sexy dinner with ingredients that contain aphrodisiacs like oysters, tomatoes, pine nuts, spices and special red wine.  Construct homemade love coupons for your partner to cash into. Surprises are better appreciated when they are beneficial to both lovebirds in matrimony. 

Routine is a great enemy of passion while cuddling is much more romantic than sitting apart.