Sexual preferences are a lot like how you order your favourite pizza. In the same way, some ladies have different sexual tastes too. This is because sexual preferences span across a spectrum; what may turn one person on, might have the very opposite effect on someone else, it is that simple.

Making a woman happy is a lot easier than you think. The biggest mistake anyone makes in a relationship, is trying to read their lover’s mind. Having great sex has nothing to do with the size of manhood, it’s simply about learning to use your body, and using it well; especially, on how you use your hands, maybe your tongue and your voice.

The bedroom is really not the place to prove your masculinity; like, bragging about your sexual prowess. The attitude you bring into the bedroom matters, even if you like it rough, a woman’s body isn’t something to be wrecked or conquered, it’s to be satisfied.

The following are tips that can help you please her enormously, and make her go weak in the knees with an intense orgasm. 

Learn her erogenous zones –  the neck, sweep of her spine boobs, armpits and crooks of her elbows, wrists, palms and top of fingers. Other places include, hips and lower abdomen, backs of her knees, ankles, and foot arches. Get to touch, rub, caress these areas. Never squeeze except when asked. Look out for what else you can do for her, every lady is a little different, so you will have to figure out through trial and error such as, asking the following questions – why don’t you wear something sexy? Get some silk boxers or pajamas, find some sleepwear that she’ll enjoy taking off. You could even ask her to pick something out for you. The bottom line is to make sex about undressing each other and not just about you undressing her and then pulling off your socks.

Sex is not just about penetration and if you thought that it is, you couldn’t be more wrong. There’s so much more to the act that can make it all the more pleasurable and hot. A woman enjoys sex as much as a man but that can only happen when you pay attention to her needs in bed.

While men often overlook the importance of foreplay and hurry the act, it is very important from a woman’s perspective. Just because you are all up and charged, does not mean that your woman is ready for the act too. A relaxed approach and a little consideration to what she wants, does most of the trick. And do not try too hard on making her orgasm. 

Be a gentleman in bed – understand the difference between aggression and abuse, never cross the line and hurt her sentiments. If you must have a rough sex session, be sure not to let it get wild and turn violent. Tenderly love and care for your woman like a delicate flower that needs to be handled with care and love.

Dirty talks can be used to spice up your sexual life – if you are keen on satisfying your woman in bed, then learn to talk dirty by telling her about what you like about her, how you get turned on looking at her naked, and so forth. Also, try dirty dancing like twerking, to give your regular love making a whole new start. This lends a refreshing appeal to sex as it feels like new or the first time. The whole idea is to make her feel wanted and special.