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Get to use your mouth – In this instance, I’m referring to using your words. Communication is the key to any successful relationship and even more so when it has to do with sex.

The best sex is between couples willing to communicate, be open and honest about their desires. Perfect time to talk is long before you get in bed (outside the bedroom). It may feel uncomfortable at first but try putting it in writing as texts and send to your guy.That way, you start off breezy and work up to happy ending.

Staycation – Going for ‘staycations’ as often as possible will be a nice break. A romantic getaway can help break up the monotony of your normal sex life. Go a step further by shaking things up a bit; get it done in the sitting room, library, kitchen, laundry room or staircase. Shower together and be careful, things get very slippery when you are wet. Little changes can go a long way to making a big difference in your normal routine. It’s easy to become complacent and that’s when sex gets stale.

Quickies – This might not happen all the time especially when one is in the midst of a crazy life, and it’s difficult to find time for one another. Learning to enjoy quickie is a great way to get in the act some time together while the intimacy and cuddly part can always come in later.

Compliment- It’s super cool to compliment your man at any slightest opportunity. Men can be very self-conscious both outside and inside the bedroom. Many ladies hardly think of this when it comes to making love.

For a change use sex to get aroused- Constantly waiting to get turned on for sex can affect the  chances of you having a satisfying encounter with your spouse. So, for a change, use sex to get aroused instead of always waiting for arousal to copulate. Do this by initiating the act before you get aroused. There’s a big possibility you will be turned on in the process.

Role play – Share your fantasies with your hubby and encourage him to do the same. Most men do have sexual fantasies but feel uncomfortable sharing it because  their wives may find it creepy even though most of them don’t mind their women filling them in on their sexual fantasies. You can make a game out of writing down the different fantasies, place in a corner where you can easily pull it out when next the two of you are in the moment.

Being vocal – Getting vocal is all about opening your mouth and letting the words flow. It is one of the best sex strategy for ladies. If you feel like moaning/groaning, let it out and don’t hold back. Your boo will definitely find all your vocalizations arousing.

In conclusion, slow down the end part of the sexual activity if you want to both prolong his feelings of sexual enjoyment. Increase the strength of his orgasms by slowing down when he is about to climax, it lengthen the time he spends in the zone of maximum pleasure. 

Men love this technique on them, it makes them feel incredible.