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Ladies, carefully choose whom to submit to, Paul Adefarasin counsels

March 12,2019
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Founder and Senior Pastor of the House On The Rock church, Paul Adefarasin, has been speaking on what to look out for in a man when choosing a spouse.

According to him a man without direction, and who has no God-like compass guiding him, will end up being the tail, while the wife becomes head. The husband is meant to be the head while the woman is to be the body, he insists.

“Ladies, carefully choose whom to submit to. If he is not going anywhere and has no God-like compass guiding him, you will end up being the head and he the tail. The husband is meant to be the head and you’re meant to be the body. Ask him questions like ‘where are you going?’ He is meant to be the direction and you are meant to be the mobilization!

“Fellows, a man with vision, who is on a mission looks attractive to a woman. You have no business talking to a lady if you don’t have a vision. A good woman will choose a man on the premise of his mission. If you don’t have a road map for your vision, she won’t come near you. You have to be sensitive to know who is a good woman. Choose carefully, because some women are knives – not every woman is a wife.” He wrote on his Instagram page on Tuesday.

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